How to Deal With Exam Stress?
Introduction
Let's get something straight, I'm not a professional. I can offer you some advice, based on my experience (and note, a whole lot of not researching anything and hoping my advice sticks), about how not to stress about your exams (so as to not affect your performance), but if the level of stress you are experiencing is severe, and more than you would expect for whichever exam you are doing, please seek professional help.That aside, if you ignored above anyway and/or you're interested, allow me to share with you the truth about exam-stress; it's completely justified. And no, I don't mean it in the patronising way when others say "oh it's good to have a little stress, but don't stress too much" or "the exam doesn't matter as much." I mean hey, if that's enough for you, don't let me stop you. But in the average case, it makes sense for you to be stressed to the point where your performance is affected. Consider university entrance exams; different universities have a lot of different things to offer, so it's perfectly reasonable to be stressed because there's a lot on the line. Let's break down my approach.
Exam Practice/Mocks
Quick point; I'm referring to mocks that don't hold any weight; if they offer you some kind of
predicted grade that holds
value, feel free to read the next section.
The beginning of exam stress starts with mocks and exam practice. The first thing we need to
realise is that there
are two main reasons why we get stressed. The first is just the atmosphere; in general I would
reccommend asking your
institution to have a change of room if you think it affects your performance. The second is
more important, you
can get stressed because a bad grade in your mock indicates you're not ready for the real thing.
However, I propose an
ammendment to that perspective.
If you are stressed during your mock or your practice papers, your grade, quite obviously, will
not be very good. However,
as a result, the grade you've gotten is just bad data, because it's been skewed by your stress.
As a result, to prevent that
skew, you need to omit any external factors; what we call 'control variables' if you aren't
familiar with STEM terms. The only
thing you want to know is, "How well can I do this paper under time?". This is easier said than
done of course, but doing it
isn't quite as difficult as it seems. Adopt the mentality of, "Here's the time. Here's the
paper. I must do the questions on
this paper in this time." (not for me, but if you find it helps, repeat this mantra
before you start).
Quite literally, you're doing an impression of being a computer; you have the paper as an input,
and the time as a parameter, and you
just output the result, nothing else. The result may be that you are quite robotic when you do
the paper, but hey, if it works,
it works. As a result you will get A*s and there will be milk and honey and- no. That's not the
aim of adopting the perspective,
and that's (although not certainly) not going to be the case. What you want as an
immediate outcome, is good data. A
practice paper or mock is your chance to be your own examiner. You want to know how good you
are. You can hope you did well of course,
but our immediate want is for your data to be sound, and the grade to be an accurate reflection
of your ability.

The Exam
I would hope that the slight improvement to your grades (but again not your actual ability) in
your
practice papers would give a confidence
boost. If not, try this:
Now things have spiced up; our reasons for stress have changed; we're now stressed because the
outcome
of this exam will have degree of
consequence to your future. Like I said, I'm not going to downplay it's significance because I
neither
know nor care what exam you are
doing, I'm just going to assume it's important. So how do we adopt this perspective? Simple, we
do
the
same as before. Adopt the scientist,
robot, computer person. But this time we change our reasons, or more specifically, we identify
that
although the consequences of your future are
contingent on your grades, your grades are contingent on your ability. It seems obvious, sure,
but
it's
best to spell it out when adopting this
perspective*.
This perspective helps because what we need to do, as an immediate aim, is to work efficiently.
And
what
we have found is that, when adopting the
perspective in our mock and practice papers, the input/output answers over time is what
optimises
our ability (note that even if you aren't
working at the capacity you want; at this point this is the best you can do, so just hope you
get
lucky). If we deviate from it, we
can either do better than our ability, or worse (and let's be honest, it's probably going to be
worse).
So in order to optimise our marks on our
paper, we need to omit any external, again, 'control variables', which include stress. It's also
worth
noting at this point, that stress impeding your
ability during exam usually comes in the form as a distraction (i.e how much weight have you put
in
for
each question). As a result, this is a variable
that needs to be omitted.
To sum it up in a patronising tone, "Do what you did in the mocks."
*I believe this is because the robotic way of spelling things out gets you in the mode of
adopting a
robotic way of thinking.

Time
Just as a side note, it's worth noting that stress occurs more often as you near the end of the paper. As a result you may find that if you have issues with timing, it may be a good idea to limit how much you can look at the clock; focus on trying to go reasonably fast (and look at the clock at most 2-3 times). As a result, the weight caused by stress may outweigh the loss caused by being less able to time yourself during the paper; at least in my papers, this certainly was the case.